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INFOGRAPHIC: The Anatomy Of A Rich Guy's Shopping Habits

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Affluent males over the age of 35 have quickly become the holy grail for Internet retailers. 

Nearly half the 19 million guys who fit that profile in the U.S. drop a staggering $30,000 per year shopping online, according to a new study by iProspect,

“The old adage that men hate to shop is being upended by the digital experience," said Robert Murray, global GEO.

Not only do they turn to the Web to shop 98 percent of the time, but more than two-thirds shop via smartphones and 46 percent say they prefer tablets over hitting the mall. 

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The Number Of Gay Households Skyrocketed In The Past Decade

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Even as gay couples continue to fight for their right to marry, the number of same-sex households has steadily risen over the last 10 years.

The U.S. Census Bureau recently released a brief of the 2010 Census that showed an 80 percent increase in same-sex households from 358,000 in 2000 to 646,000 in 2010. 

The Census also evaluated the prevalence of households with partners of different race. As shown in the map below, same-sex households with partners of different race were mostly found in the southwestern states, with the exception of Alaska.same sex gay households US

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Just Thinking About Attractive Women Makes Male IQ Plummet

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The Catholic Church Warns Australian Women Not To Be Too Picky

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How do you know if he's "the one?" Check to make sure that he has a pulse and isn't already married to someone else. In other words, don't be too picky, at least according to the Catholic Church in Australia. 

"Are women getting too choosy? I'd say yes," Father Tony Kerin from the Archdiocese of Melbourne told the Herald Sun of Australia. "I think many are setting aside their aspirations for later, but by the time they get around to it, they've missed their chance."

Kerin's comments came in light of research by demographer Bernard Salt. According to Salt, there are 1.3 million women and 1.343 million men between the ages of 25 to 34 living in Australia, the Herald Sun reported. But of those 1.3 million men, only 86,000 are actually "marriage material," because the other men are already married, gay or in a serious relationship, according to Salt's calculations. Salt himself, however, seems a little picky: he also excluded men who are single parents and men who earn less than $60,000 a year. 

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Concerns about a "man drought" in Australia are not new. BBC News reported in 2008 that there were 100,000 more females than males living in Australia, and the gender imbalance was especially bad in Australia's coastal cities. The imbalance was caused by thousands of Australian men in their 20s and 30s leaving the country to travel or to find work, according to the BBC

And the Australian Bureau of Statistics says that between 1990 and 2001, the "crude marriage rate" declined from 6.9 to 5.3 marriages per 1,000 population. 

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11 More Fascinating Facts About Beauty

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Society places a premium on appearance. But what makes someone "good-looking" and why are these physically ideal specimens so often the subject of envy?

We've written about the science of beauty once or twice before, but something about this subject still attracts us.

The vertical distance between the eyes and mouth, and the horizontal distance between the eyes are key determinants of the "ideal" face.

The perfect female face, according to researchers at the University of Toronto, has a distance between the pupils of 46 percent of the entire face, and a distance between the eyes and the mouth that is 36 percent of the distance from the hairline to the chin.

Source: BBC News



The left side of the face is prettier.

College students who were asked to rate photographs of 10 male and 10 female faces found portraits showing the left sides of faces more aesthetically pleasing than those showing right sides.   

Source: Psychology Today 



Beautiful people make about 5% more an hour than their average-looking colleagues.

A 2005 study by the Federal Reserve Bank of St. Louis found that slim, tall and good-looking people tend to earn higher wages than their plain-Jane co-workers.

This is partly because certain physical characteristics shown to increase confidence and communication skills may also boost productivity at the office. Researchers note that discrimination, or a "plainness penalty," may also be at play.  

Source: CNN Money 



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New York City Is Cracking Down On Salons That Charge Men More

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Steve Carrell being waxed in 40-year-old virginIt takes longer for a manicurist to scrub and file a man's hand, so it makes sense that Kim's Holly Salon in Crown Heights charges its male customers $8 and female clientele $6.

Salons across the city do the same, charging differently for waxing, haircuts, and manicures depending on one's gender.

But now New York City is stepping up its enforcement of a no-gender discrimination policy when it comes to pricing of these services, according to The Wall Street Journal.

Salon owners told the WSJ that the enforcement of the provision was ridiculous. because it does actually take longer to perform many of these services, like back waxing for men. It also takes more product and labor.

So far this  year, more than 103 salons and barbershops have been fined over this unpopular provision. Last year, beauty salons received 269 violations, while dry cleaning services received 272 violations.

First-time violators pay a fine from $50 to $200, the second, third, and fourth fines range from $100 to $500.

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The 10 Cities Every Single Guy Needs To Visit

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Whether its the local sports team, regional brew or stellar nightlife, guys have their own concept of what makes a city awesome.

AskMen.com, arbiter of all things dude, has just released its annual list of the 29 top cities for men to visit this year. We're taking a closer look at the top 10; check out their website for the complete roundup.

#10 Melbourne

This easily navigable Australian city has food and nightlife from every culture and walk of life. It also has great events like the Australian Open, horse racing and a Grand Prix, to music and arts and lots of local bars.

Source: AskMen



#9 Marseille, France

It's less touristy than Paris with a Mediterranean feel. It's mix of old world architecture and new world nightlife will have you begging for just one more night.

Source: AskMen



#8 Hong Kong

The skyline and view of the harbor are breathtaking. The shopping, arts and culture, led by the Dragon Boat Festival, are not to be missed.

Source: AskMen



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Porn And Video Games Are Ruining The Next Generation Of American Men

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Psychologist Philip Zimbardo claims that today's young men are destined for failure because of porn and video games.

In his controversial book The Demise of Guys: Why Boys Are Struggling And What We Can Do About It, Zimbardo and co-author Nikita Duncan outline why he thinks men are failing in education and personal relationships.

He suggests parents limit or cut off access to computers and video games to get their sons on the right track.

Some highlights from the book:

-Females currently outperform males at every level, from grade school to graduate school. Boys are 30 percent more likely than girls to drop out of high school and college, according to the National Center of Education Statistics.

-In 2011, young men's SAT scores were the worst they had been in 40 years.

-Even Hollywood has caught on: films like Failure to Launch, Knocked Up and Jackass mock the ineptitude of this generation.

-Boys account for 70 percent of D's and F's given at school.

-Research shows guys aren't interested in being husbands, fathers or the head of the household.

-Boys are four to five times more likely than girls to have Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, according to the National Center for Education Statistics. Two-thirds of students in special education programs are guys.

-The average boy spends 13 hours a week playing video games. The average girl spends 5. The average young American will spend 10,000 hours playing video games by age 21. That's twice the time it takes to earn a bachelor's degree.

-The average high school boy spends two hours watching porn every week. Men can't escape porn: 13,500 full-length commercial porn films were released in 2011, compared with 600 Hollywood films.

-Researchers claim that internet pornography is hurting young boys' ability to form meaningful romantic relationships because they objectify their partner.

-It's predicted that 60 percent of bachelor's degrees will go to women by 2016.

-63 percent of men surveyed said they had a lack of motivation because of mixed messages from the media and society on their role.

-70 percent of young men surveyed said their generation wouldn't be as smart or innovative as their peers in other First World countries.

Here's a telling graph from the book:

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Man Sues Connecticut Hospital For Failing To Fix His Erection

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A bus driver is suing a Connecticut hospital, claiming staff watched a baseball game rather than treat his painful erection.

Daren Scott claims he was driving customers from Boston to New York in April 2009 when he got a persistent and disabling erection, the Associated Press reported Monday.

He had previously been diagnosed with priaprism, a condition that causes persistent, painful erections.

When he checked into an emergency room affiliated with Yale-New Haven Hospital, staff told him he had to move his bus, leading to more pain, Scott's suit claims.

While waiting for treatment, Scott said facility staff watched a baseball game on TV and ignored his plea for help, according to his suit.

"Notwithstanding this call for help, the staff, including the physicians, continued to watch the baseball game and ignore plaintiff's condition," Scott's lawsuit claims.

Scott is seeking $2 million.

The hospital has denied Scott's claims, saying he failed to seek immediate treatment and that he waited too long to file suit after his alleged injuries.

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MANSCAPING: 10 Ridiculous Grooming Treatments For Guys

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It's summer, which means men everywhere are starting to become more self-conscious about their bodies.

The solution? Manscaping—manly grooming in the forms of body hair removal, muscle sculpting, or getting a "sun-kissed" faux glow.

Men go to great lengths to look good, and we've noticed their efforts. Here are ten of the craziest procedures men actually use to improve their appearances.

Waxing your nose hair

Price: $20

What you get: Nose hair plays a crucial role in your health buy trapping particles in the air before the particles make it to your throat and lungs. But men can have unsightly nose hairs that would be better if gone altogether, not trimmed.

Nose hair waxing involves dabbing hot wax into the nostril, letting the wax cool under a cotton swab, and pulling out the cotton swab to remove the undesirable hairs. The procedure is also celebrity-endorsed — Pauly D and his friends tried it out on MTV's "The Pauly D Project."

Where you get it: Face to Face NYC has it on their list of services, but other salons will do it per request.



Bikini waxing...for men

Price: $50-$70

What you get: Men can get bikini waxes, too! The procedure involves dripping hot wax around the pelvic area, then letting the wax cool and — riiiiip the hair is gone.

Where you get it: Salons everywhere.



"Pejazzling"

Price: $20

What you get: Pejazzling is the male counterpart of "vajazzling." It involves a man getting a bikini wax (see previous slide), then having rhinestones (or Swarovski crystals) glued around his member.

Where you get it: Face to Face Spa on West 20th Street, as well as other salons across the nation, can pejazzle your pejizzle foshizzle. Or, you can wax your privates and buy a do-it-yourself vajazzling kit.



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Why Women Say 'I'm Sorry' More Than Men

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Women are more easily offended than men. In turn, they perceive more of their own behavior as improper, requiring an apology:

Despite wide acceptance of the stereotype that women apologize more readily than men, there is little systematic evidence to support this stereotype or its supposed bases (e.g., men’s fragile egos). We designed two studies to examine whether gender differences in apology behavior exist and, if so, why. In Study 1, participants reported in daily diaries all offenses they committed or experienced and whether an apology had been offered. Women reported offering more apologies than men, but they also reported committing more offenses. There was no gender difference in the proportion of offenses that prompted apologies. This finding suggests that men apologize less frequently than women because they have a higher threshold for what constitutes offensive behavior. In Study 2, we tested this threshold hypothesis by asking participants to evaluate both imaginary and recalled offenses. As predicted, men rated the offenses as less severe than women did. These different ratings of severity predicted both judgments of whether an apology was deserved and actual apology behavior.

Source: "Why Women Apologize More Than Men, Gender Differences in Thresholds for Perceiving Offensive Behavior" from Psychological Science

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STUDY: Women Are Much Better Financial Planners Than Men

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For centuries, women have been referred to as the fairer sex. I could not find a satisfying explanation of the origin, but it's a fair guess it was coined by a male, probably because he found women more attractive than men.

One thing we do know is that when it comes to investing, and financial matters in general, women are definitely the fairer sex. Let's see why this is true.

The Spectrem Group conducted a survey to determine if the Mars/Venus divide extends to financial matters. The following is a summary of its findings:

  • Women were more inclined to worry about every aspect of financial matters and make more deliberate investment decisions.
  • Their generally more conservative approach made women more likely than men to use frugality as a wealth building strategy.
  • Women were more likely than men to cut spending and increase savings in response to economic concerns.
  • Men were more inclined to take on investment risk -- they were twice as likely to describe themselves as "most aggressive" and "aggressive" investors.
  • The willingness to take on investment risk goes hand-in-hand with investment confidence -- men were more than twice as likely to say they are "very knowledgeable" about financial products and investments, while women were more than twice as likely to say they're "not very knowledgeable."

The surveys raise some interesting questions:

  • Is the greater confidence of men in their investment knowledge justified? Does it result in superior performance?
  • Is the greater willingness of men to take more investment risk rewarded?
  • Is the greater frugality of women the right approach?

Fortunately, there are academic papers to help us answer these questions. Thanks to a series of studies, we know that the greater confidence of men in their financial skills, which probably contributes to their willingness to take on more risk, isn't justified -- women investors have achieved superior results. The following is a brief summary of that evidence.

The study "Boys Will Be Boys" examined the role that gender played in investment returns. The study covered the performance of 35,000 households at a large brokerage house from February 1991 to January 1997. The authors found that both women and men were lousy stock pickers -- both sexes produced returns below appropriate risk-adjusted benchmarks.

On average, the stocks they bought went on to underperform, and the stocks they sold went on to outperform. Both sexes would have been better off if they simply held the portfolios they began the year with. However, because women traded less, incurring lower costs, they produced higher net returns, the only kind you get to spend.

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STUDY: Do Men Or Women Give More To Charity?

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At LearnVest we are all about being smart when it comes to charity: giving what we can to the right causes, and not just around the holiday season.

So we jumped when we saw a BiddingforGood study released earlier this year that found that not only do men donate more money to charity than women, but they also give more frequently.

If you're surprised, so are we! Research in the past has suggested that, in general, women donate more than men. In fact just last year, a University of Indiana study found that female-headed households were much more likely to donate to charity than households headed by males.

But according to BiddingforGood, a company that connects businesses to charitable causes through online auctions, the tables have turned: Their survey found that 52% of men donate weekly or monthly to charity, compared to just 42% of women, and 62% of men give more than $500 a year to charity, vs. 46% of women.

Of course, charity isn't all about the money--studies show that women across all age groups volunteer more than men, and that women fill more not-for-profit jobs than men.

Who controls the giving in your house? How do you decide how much to give?

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Men Don't Show Empathy, And It's Hurting Them In The Boardroom

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It's well-documented that men have a few inherent qualities that give them a leg up in the business world. But their body language and expression of emotion (or lack thereof) could be unintentionally hurting their performance at work.

In a recent article, Carol Kinsey Goman at Forbes highlights a number of the biggest body language blunders that men are guilty of committing in the workplace. Here are the two mistakes she mentioned we thought were most interesting:

1. Not exhibiting empathy 

Oftentimes, when a man is approached with a problem, he immediately dives into executive problem-solving mode. This can be blamed on the male brain's temporal-parietal junction, which activates what Goman calls men's "analyze-and-fix-it circuits." This set of wiring can hurt men when a friend or colleague is looking for an empathetic ear.  "The next time someone comes to you with an emotional problem," writes Goman, "try being an empathetic sounding board rather than an executive problem solver."

2. Invading personal space

Because successful and confident men typically occupy greater amounts of personal space, they often wind up invading others' spheres.  These infringements don't go over well, as humans are biologically programmed to feel threatened when approached too closely. Goman says that "you can tell if you have infringed on people's space by the way they react-stepping away, withdrawing their head or neck, angling their shoulders away, or placing an object (laptop purse, coffee cup) between the two of you. And when you notice any of these signs, back off!"

Goman also writes that three other mistakes men make are appearing intimidating, not displaying emotion, and acting as though they're not listening.

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This App Might Just Zap Personal Finance's Gender Gap

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Adam Levey, a 23-year-old graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy, is set to begin his stint as a second lieutenant in the Marine Corps in Quantico, Va. New to life outside his parents' financial purview, he's learning how to budget his salary of just over $3,000 a month.

He's got major expenses -- a car loan on a 2012 Jeep Grand Cherokee and a career starter loan from the Naval Academy -- plus twice-monthly trips to see his girlfriend in New Jersey, which cost $80 on gas alone.

Like many men his age, Levey hasn't been the most conscientious about his money. "I spend money quickly, and I don't think about it," he said. "When you don't have a girlfriend, it costs a lot of money, and when you do, it costs a lot of money. It takes a lot of discipline to manage your finances."

To help him buckle down, he's turned to PowerWallet, a new online money management tool. He likes it because he can see his bank accounts, loans and investments all in one place, plus get bill-pay reminders and spending-limit alerts to keep him from busting his budget.

But what really appealed were the incentives for staying on top of his balance sheet. Every time Levey accepts a coupon offer or sets a new bill-pay alert, he earns "PowerPoints." Earn enough points and he gets cash back, in the form of gift cards or prepaid debit cards. In addition, the site offers deals custom-tailored for Levey: If his spending history shows that he's been dropping big bucks at T.G.I.Friday's, for example, the interface may offer him a discount alternative at Applebee's.

PowerWallet is just one example of a new crop of budgeting tools designed with men in mind. Common wisdom holds that those in Levey's generation are often entitled moochers, sponging off the Bank of Mom and Dad, and that they lack the skills of financial independence. PowerWallet aims to help them change that with strategies that make household accounting into less of a chore and more of a game.

Getting Men to Pay Attention to the Bank Balance

PowerWallet co-founder Howard Dvorkin offers an evolutionary theory for why some young males take a back seat when it comes to household finances.

"The wife tends to grab the checkbook," he said. "And the man goes out and hunts -- I hate to bring it back to caveman days."

But that atavistic mindset continues to prevail: In 75% of American households, women manage the expenses and pay the bills, according to a Harris Interactive survey. That left an opening for PowerWallet to engage men like Levey, who are starting to abandon those laissez faire tendencies.

Anecdotally, Dvorkin said, there has been a significantly higher user growth rate among men in recent months.

One reason may be PowerWallet's mobile interface, which creates an easier entry point for guys on the go. "The ability to take the finances off the hard drive in the kitchen and move online where they could have access it to 24/7 was a critical point," said Steve Smith, CEO of Mvelopes, an online budgeting tool that focuses on mobile applications. "And that's even further extended with mobile technology."

Perhaps counter-intuitively, the PowerWallet team has also tried to make its user experience as no-frills as possible.

"PowerWallet's mobile site functions exactly like an app without the hassle of searching or downloading anything," said Bob Sullivan, PowerWallet co-founder. "We believe men will find it more appealing, because it's simple and doesn't require a ton of work."

Good Incentives

But ease of access itself isn't enough when it comes to personal finance software. Keeping users engaged requires some incentives. PowerWallet's technique focuses on the "gamification" of money management. When logging in or setting a spending alert earns you "PowerPoints," budgeting starts to feel more interactive and playful. A similar method is also promoted by SaveUp, another personal finance management site.

Ditto for personalization and special offers, like the discounts Levey got for Applebee's. By tracking users locations and spending histories, PowerWallet offers "PowerSaver" deals designed to help people to save on the things they're already spending on.

Personalization holds plenty of appeal for women, too, says PowerWallet beta tester Latasha Lawrence. The 26-year-old just graduated from optometry school in Fort Lauderdale, Fla., and is set to do her residency in Bloomfield, N.J. -- an expensive move that has further strained her student budget.

She was aware she was overspending on some things, but she didn't realize just how much -- until she spent a couple of months testing PowerWallet.

"I knew that I was eating out a lot," Lawrence said, "but after seeing [my expenses] all in one place on PowerWallet, it looks excessive." She has changed her tactic and become more conscious of her spending by setting a $200 monthly food budget, cooking more and refrigerating leftovers for a couple of meals.

Now, she's also offered deals tailored to her favorite restaurants -- or equivalent competitors -- to make those eating out more financially palatable.

That sort of service is the whole point, according to Sullivan.

"You may be over budget in your travel and entertainment bucket," Sullivan observed. "We provide you with information on how to reallocate those funds and services."

Getting people to focus on their banking -- even if it takes luring them with in incentives and deals -- is all the more essential in a down economy.

"Five years ago, people weren't paying attention," Dvorkin said. "If they did, they wouldn't be in the shape they're in right now. People were saying, 'We'll just refinance the house' or 'We'll wait until I get that bonus at work,' but now you're lucky if you have a job. Now they have to pay attention."

And if it takes bells and whistles, so be it.

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Science Explains Why It Hurts So Much To Get Hit In The Balls

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More than any other bodily injury, getting hit in the testicles is probably what every man dreads most.

Of all the soft, fleshy spots on the human body, none register the same kind of incapacitating, end-of-the-world pain as the family jewels.

What causes such inconceivable pain? Well, for starters, a shot to the balls is just like any other physical strike to the body: because of nerves, it’s gonna hurt. Unlike most other parts of your body, though, your scrotum lacks protection in the form of bones, large muscle mass, and fat. The testes are just wee little glands, and they’re going to absorb the whole force of the blow all on their own.

Another thing that makes a ball shot so painful is the same thing that makes almost every other sensation down there so much fun. Your groin has a ridiculously high number of sensory nerve endings, and such generous innervation makes good and bad touches alike very noticeable sensations.

And the pain doesn’t just stay down there in the scrotum. It insists on radiating throughout the groin and up into the abdomen (and, psychically, out to every other dude standing within a few feet), leading to a weird stomach ache. This is the work of a phenomenon known as referred pain, which is when a sensation originating at one spot travels along a nerve root to other parts of the body and is perceived as happening there, too. It’s the same thing that’s going when you get an ice cream headache. In this case, the pain starts in your balls and travels up the perineal and pudendal nerves and the spermatic plexus, which cover real estate in the groin and abdomen, around the spine and even a little ways down into the anus, to make it feel like death has come for most of your lower body.

Location, Location, Location

Why is such a sensitive and delicate body part just hanging there in the open? The placement of the testicles is inconvenient, but absolutely necessary. The testes’ job is to produce sperm, and sperm are very fragile. They’re extremely sensitive to high and low temperatures, and must be kept away from the rest of the body and relatively exposed to maintain the right climate. They can handle human body temps for only one to four hours, or the average amount of time it takes them to travel through the female reproductive tract and fertilize an egg. Internal testes or any type of significant shielding for them would heat them up too much, too early and make them drop out of the race well before reaching the egg, rendering them useless.

The scrotum isn’t just a dumb sack swaying in the breeze, though. In deference to our genetic interests, our bodies subconsciously thermoregulate our balls by flexing the cremasteric muscle and drawing the scrotum up closer to the body when it gets too cold and dropping it when it’s hot. This optimized, on-the-fly sperm storage is precise enough that each testicle can be repositioned independent of its twin in order to get the temperature just right, explaining their sometimes asymmetrical dangle.

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We Really Do See Women As 'Parts' And Men As 'Whole'

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A glimpse at the magazine rack in any supermarket checkout line will tell you that women are frequently the focus of sexual objectification. Now, new research finds that the brain actually processes images of women differently than those of men, contributing to this trend.

Women are more likely to be picked apart by the brain and seen as parts rather than a whole, according to research published online June 29 in the European Journal of Social Psychology. Men, on the other hand, are processed as a whole rather than the sum of their parts.

"Everyday, ordinary women are being reduced to their sexual body parts," said study author Sarah Gervais, a psychologist at the University of Nebraska, Lincoln. "This isn't just something that supermodels or porn stars have to deal with." [6 Gender Myths, Busted]

Objectification hurts

Numerous studies have found that feeling objectified is bad for women. Being ogled can make women do worse on math tests, and self-sexualization, or scrutiny of one's own shape, is linked to body shame, eating disorders and poor mood.

But those findings have all focused on the perception of being sexualized or objectified, Gervais told LiveScience. She and her colleagues wondered about the eye of the beholder: Are people really objectifying women more than men?

To find out, the researchers focused on two types of mental processing, global and local. Global processing is how the brain identifies objects as a whole. It tends to be used when recognizing people, where it's not just important to know the shape of the nose, for example, but also how the nose sits in relation to the eyes and mouth. Local processing focuses more on the individual parts of an object. You might recognize a house by its door alone, for instance, while you're less likely to recognize a person's arm without the benefit of seeing the rest of their body.

If women are sexually objectified, people should process their bodies in a more local way, focusing on individual body parts like breasts. To test the idea, Gervais and her colleagues carried out two nearly identical experiments with a total of 227 undergraduate participants. Each person was shown non-sexualized photographs, each of either a young man or young woman, 48 in total. After seeing each original full-body image, the participants saw two side-by-side photographs. One was the original image, while the other was the original with a slight alteration to the chest or waist (chosen because these are sexualized body parts). Participants had to pick which image they'd seen before.

In some cases, the second set of photos zoomed in on the chest or waist only, asking participants to pick the body part they'd seen previously versus the one that had been altered.

Objectifying women

The results showed a clear schism between the images of men and women. When viewing female images, participants were better at recognizing individual parts than they were matching whole-body photographs to the originals. The opposite was true for male images: People were better at recognizing a guy as a whole than they were his individual parts.

People were also better at discerning women's individual body parts than they were at men's individual body parts, further confirming the local processing, or objectification, that was happening. [Cleavage Countdown: 8 Facts About Breasts]

"It's both men and women doing this to women," Gervais said. "So don't blame the men here."

In the second experiment, researchers preceded the body-part task with images of letters made up of a mosaic of tiny letters — an H made up of hundreds of little Ts, for example. They told some participants to identify the tiny letters, prompting their brains to engage in local processing. Other participants were asked to identify the big letter, revving up global processing. This latter group became less likely to objectify women, the researchers found. They no longer were better at recognizing a woman's parts than her whole body.  

There could be evolutionary reasons that men and women process female bodies differently, Gervais said, but because both genders do it, "the media is probably a prime suspect."

"Women's bodies and their body parts are used to sell all sorts of products, but we are now for everyday, ordinary women, processing them in a similar way," she said.

Fortunately, the fact that the simple letter-mosaic task swept the effect away suggests that it's an easy habit to overcome, Gervais said. Being in a happy mood is related to global processing, she said, so avoiding blue funks could help you see people in a holistic way, as could simply reminding yourself to step back and look at the bigger picture.

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The Best Bars In New York City To Pick Up An Eligible Bachelor

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For those who don’t keep up with HBO, New York City is loaded with single girls looking for hot and unattached guys, seeking out everything from one-nighters to potential spouses.

And in a city with this many young people, the perfect male counterpart is out there, just waiting to be found.

Convinced that we can help the single ladies of New York in their man-hunt, Party Earth has created a list of NYC bars that are known for attracting the city’s most eligible bachelors.

No matter if you prefer preppy, buff, fashionable or intellectual, this list has someone for every girl – so now you can know where to go to snag your man…or men. We won’t judge.  

"The Wall Street Guy" 

Are you craving your own Nate Archibald in tailored Armani to show you the finer things in life? Do you love conversations about M&A’s over cocktails, or get goose bumps just thinking about the Upper East Side? If 1% “bad boys” are what you’re attracted to, head on over to Bar Seven Five, conveniently located on Wall Street. The chic wide-open space and dim lighting create the ideal ambiance for mingling. Come here to unwind after a long day, flirt over some of Bar Seven Five's classic cocktails made with artisanal ingredients, and use your charm to convince the hottest piece in the bar that he’d be better off spending his time balancing your assets. The tables’ communal aspects make for easy conversation starters and securing that ideal white-collar beau. 

"The Sports Guy"

Guys who love sports love New York City's Village Pourhouse. This bar is alive with everything a sports guy needs to survive: dozens of screens of sports entertainment, a large variety of premium beers and high quality bar food. Needless to say, the Village Pourhouse is a watering hole for tons of fun-loving guy’s guys. With its frat-house atmosphere, it’s a great place for casually meeting former jocks and hotties with bodies; you can pull a barstool right next to a cute guy to initiate conversation. Full of music, chatter, and the background noise from the games, the Village Pourhouse is no place to be shy. The boys here can’t resist a girl who likes sports, so put on a jersey of your favorite team, your sexiest smile, and you’ll have no problem finding a fellow Mets fan to commiserate with or a Jeter fan with whom you could grow old bashing the Red Sox with.

"The Indie/Alternative Guy"

Do you daydream of indie, freethinking guys with laid back charm who aren’t afraid to get dirty but will sneak cute poetry into your purse on your way to work the next morning? If so, Happy Ending lounge on the Lower East Side is teeming with hipsters and artist types. An ironic combination of seedy and charming, the place is filled with tacky, sparkling tables, tall horseshoe booths, a ceiling lit up with violet light beams and the loud pumping beats offered by the late night DJs. And for the single ladies out there, this is a perfect mixture for one thing, and one thing only...a wild dance party where you can pin yourself up against a Bon Iver lookalike and make him forget about anything or anyone else on his mind. This sexy, sweaty dance spot promises a plethora of mustache-sporting, tight-jean wearing, ironic t-shirt donning men to choose from.

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If you want to find the most enigmatic men in the city, Death & Co. offers an atmosphere of creativity and mystery. Dark romance broods in this modern speakeasy lounge. Cold granite, warm velvet, and crystal chandeliers over-head are only a few of the things that make this place so unique. Gourmet food and crafted cocktails by qualified mixologists make for a killer experience. More importantly for you, artists, writers and creatives of all types gather at Death & Co. to hang out in this classic bar environment. The ambient jazz and prohibition-era atmosphere is truly one-of-a-kind, and the no-standing policy ensures that you’ll have the chance to sit yourself across from a true renaissance man; just try not to pinch yourself when you get the creepy feeling he might be too perfect. 

Despite the fact that the city has one of the largest populations in the United States, its sheer size and the overabundance of bars and clubs in NY makes it an extremely difficult place for likeminded singles to meet. But the biggest struggle is knowing where to start seeking your ideal man. The bars listed above are not only sure to be loaded with desirable single men, but might just have the right match for your personality. So now that you know where to find him, you just need to go out and get him. 

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A New York Grocery Store Now Has An Aisle Just For Guys

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Since shopping is hard for men, and men only buy a certain array of manly things, an Upper West Side grocery store has launched what the New York Post is calling "the city's first 'man aisle.'" 

That means, everything men, all in one handy place (on 110th Street)! 

What exactly does this man aisle offer? According to writer Pedro Oliveira Jr.:

“It’s your essentials,” explained Ian Joskowitz, 43, chief operating officer of Westside Market NYC. “It’s your water, alcohol, soaps, shampoos, deodorants, razors."

Also: beer, barbecue sauce, chips, Chock Full o'Nuts coffee, a selection of condiments and salsa, and maybe some fruit juice and some jerky? Men like jerky! The man aisle came about after Joskowitz and Westside Market CEO George Zoitas read an ESPN study showing a surge in men shopping for their families (men were the primary grocery buyers in 31 percent of households in 2011, up from 14 percent in 1985). Of course, these men's families probably don't live on chips and salsa, but, fortunately, the rest of the store is full of stuff for non-men and children. Can women buy things in the man aisle, too? Probably. This is all just fun, Joskowitz and Zoitas say, but also, on a practical level, to help guys who don't like to use lists "remember what they need." Perhaps it will even help generate some male bonding, trips to the man aisle for gossip and recipe sharing! In the rare case that a guy needs to remember more than jerky, however, he will be left to the wolves. 

Not to quibble with a progressive movement, but this is actually not the "first" of its kind, though it may be in New York City. Procter & Gamble started testing "man aisles" in 2009, according to theChicago Tribune, with the intent "to give [men] an experience that was comfortable for them and made it easier to navigate the store." In 2011, P&G also launched a website for men,ManoftheHouse.com, which gave household (and other) tips for men. It appears to now be defunct. Some Walmart and Target locations have been phasing in "man aisles," too. We're in a time of "societal evolution" for the grocery store, says shopping scientist and author Herb Sorenson—this is all based in the premise that grocery stores are, as default, female territory. But just because more women have traditionally had shopping duties, is that the case?

(Here is where we suggest a countering "woman aisle" with laxatives, tampons, bonbons, tea, pregnancy tests, Luna bars, and Advil. Just kidding, please don't do that. People will get angry.) 

So far Westside Market's man aisle is popular enough to have required some item restocking and, of course, to have had an article written about it in the New York Post. If it's "successful," there will be more, say Zoitas and Joskowitz, who are nothing if not good at adding value. They've also offered a "Supermarket Survival Guide" to help the men of New York City become better shoppers. 

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Women Just Beat Men In Worldwide IQ Tests For The First Time Ever

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Who's smarter: men or women?

Judging by IQ scores alone, the answer used to be men.

In fact, the gap between men's and women's performance on IQ tests has long ignited questions about the test's fairness.

But now, women appear to be beating men at their own game: For the first time in history, they score higher on IQ tests.

The new finding comes from James Flynn, a New Zealand-based intelligence researcher who has tracked worldwide fluctuations in IQ (or "intelligence quotient") scores for decades. Flynn said women's IQs have lagged behind men's for about a century, at times by as many as five points. But they have now closed the gap in all the countries that Flynn analyzed, and have even gained the edge in this battle of wits.

"Over the last 100 years, everyone in the developing world has been gaining about three IQ points, but women have been gaining faster," Flynn told ABC News. "This is the result of modernity. In every country where women have an equal chance of modernity, women have caught men [in IQ testing]."

Flynn compiled test-takers' scores on a standard IQ test, called the Raven test, in Australia, New Zealand, South Africa, Estonia and Argentina. Each country tested at least 500 men and 500 women, most between ages 15 and 18.

"In all of those samples, women are the equal of men, perhaps scoring a half point or a point higher," Flynn said. He plans to publish the new results in a forthcoming book.

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